Woman constantly receives false accusations from her boyfriend, leading her to consider breaking up: ‘He constantly jumps to conclusions about what I mean instead of just taking my words at face value. I don’t want to constantly defend myself’

This has to be one of the most annoying things somebody can ask youYou are lying there, feeling just fine; you are finally relaxed after a long week of stress and drama. Suddenly, out of the blue, your boyfriend comes and asks you the most low-key insulting question, without you signaling anything in particular, and maybe while you were even feeling pretty: 'Are you ok?' 'You seem tired or stressed.' 'You look sick'.Are you kidding me? You're left there, unable to snap back because they weren't being outwardly violent, but also feeling bad because the remarks were low-key insulting about your appearance or demeanor.One time is ok; I can understand it. My face might not be looking its best, but constantly? Come on.Looking at it from the outside, the boyfriend obviously has a personal issue or anxiety that he's trying to project onto her. The thing is, when you are in a relationship that works like this, it's very easy to get confused and to start asking yourself whether you might be the problemLet's be clear: not every issue is solved solely by breaking up; there are a million things you can try before, but breaking up should always be on the table.Nobody should try to put up with …

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