Sibling finds out that dad took brother out of his will without telling him, while he is still making plans, counting on receiving that money: ‘I feel uncomfortable knowing this and saying nothing.’

Maybe don't plan your financial choices with somebody else's money.Something that is not exactly common in other countries that aren't the U.S. is getting to choose how much money and what of your things goes to whom. In most countries, if you pass away, your children get your inheritance. Maybe you can add somebody else to your will, but you cannot get your children out of your testament, at least not without proof that they don't deserve it. I think that getting to choose who gets what is great. It gives the person who has the money and property the right to give them to the person they want to, the person they think deserves it, not just who the law decides. But I also understand how it can be problematic.If you don't have a good relationship with your children, it's not that weird not wanting them to =get your money when you are out of this world. You can think they don't deserve it. After all, those things that someone will call inheritance are your things. You worked hard for them. Nobody else. So maybe you should have the right to decide who you want to keep them with one day. I also understand that maybe you weren't close to your parents, or at least not as close as your s…