Girl has a date with a guy, but at the last minute, he changes plans and invites her to his cousin's engagement party with his whole family, she doubted but finally went: 'His grandma asked when we were getting married'

You can't just change the date at the last minute. First dates can be the best or the worst time of your life. A lot of expectations and doubts occur about a first date. We don't know a lot of things: like who is paying, if it will be split, or whether they are going to dress accordingly, if they will be funny or annoying, serious or somber. We think we know who we are meeting as we have been texting beforehand, but we really don't. This is a stranger with whom we happened to hit it off over text. But it can all go downhill no matter how much chemistry you had over text. It can easily be the best person to message but the worst to keep a live conversation going. Or the other way around, they can be a little dry through text but extremely nice and upbeat in real life. It all depends on the person you are having this date with; in the end, that is the only thing that matters. I haven't been to a ton of first dates, but I've had enough to know the signs that will tell me whether that person is a keep or if I should run. I never had an awful first date; at least nobody asked me to go to a family gathering on the first date. But I did have some really good ones. I'm not an expert of an…

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