Woman struggles to find a good enough reason to break up with a friend: ‘99% of our conversations revolve around her life, her problems, her interests, and the things happening with her’

I've ended relationships for much smaller reasonsI think part of our mandatory emotional education should be that we're allowed to end any relationship we want for whatever reason we choose.No, it doesn't have to be a huge reason; in fact, there can be no reason at all. Wanting is enough of a reason. Friendships and relationships are all about desire, and the day we stop wanting to be somebody's friend or lover is the day we should leave.We're taught we should have a big breakup conversation, or have enough of a reason to leave, but sometimes there isn't any. What's the point of keeping a friendship if we don't want to be there for them?I think part of the problem is that we look at breaking up with a friend as a moral problem, and it really isn't. There doesn't have to be any bad guys or good guys; it's either you feel like seeing someone, or you don't. It really is that simple.I've distanced myself from many friendships before because my life took another turn and I felt more inclined to see other people. Luckily, most of those friends silently understood that and also focused on the people who naturally gravitated to them.Of course, not all of us possess that wisdom, and some p…

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