Using AI to write wedding vows? Nearly half of people wouldn’t mind, says survey

Few things are as personal or as heartfelt as wedding vows. They’re an opportunity for couples to express their love to one another, unfiltered, in front of the most important people in their lives. But in the age of artificial intelligence, more and more aspects of wedding planning are getting outsourced to technology—and a new survey shows that even vows aren’t off the table. As of 2026, wedding planning platform Zola reports that 54% of couples are using AI for some aspect of wedding planning, with the largest shares using it to answer etiquette questions (54%), keep track of timeline and to-do lists (44%), and draft emails to guests and vendors (40%). According to Zola, using AI to draft vows remains a line most couples don’t cross, with 63% saying AI has no place in the vow-writing process. Though vows are the most personal, 44% also said it shouldn’t play a part in writing any speeches or toasts and 36% don’t want it used by officiants to write the ceremony script. But a new survey suggests that modern couples’ views are shifting. While fully AI-generated vows remain a taboo, nearly half of people in committed relationships said they don’t mind AI playing a part in the vow-w…